A Post with a Purpose

Walking out of that doctor’s office five years ago with Jared’s diagnosis of autism was a pivotal point in our family’s life. Not only did I become a mom of a child with special needs, but I found that I needed a whole new skill set to guide him. One of the first things that you learn is that there is no cure for autism. The second is that you become the “case worker” for your child’s development and education. If your child were diagnosed with a medical condition, more than likely your doctor would proceed with a course of action. The appointments would be coordinated for treatment. You would have a resource to go to help your child. With autism, you are thrown into a world where you decide the course of your child’s future. For me, I had to decide which therapy we should try (such as speech therapy and occupational therapy) and find an available therapist. I studied Floortime therapy and Stanley Greenspan. I researched the information on vaccinations and gluten and casein-free diets. I had to understand how to interact with the education system and navigate the world of IEP’s (Individualized Education Plans). I ordered special vitamins, and we visited a naturopathic doctor. I was overwhelmed with my lack of knowledge to help my child so that he could achieve his potential. By the grace of God, I was able to find another parent and some wonderful therapists who helped direct me. And I tried to learn.

Not every parent is that lucky. Since 2008, MSU-B has sponsored an autism conference that brings together parents, teachers, therapists, and other professionals. We learn from the teachers and therapists, and I believe that they also learn from us. Due to budget cuts and the loss of our biggest sponsor this year, I am asking for donations from my friends and family for this event that is so critical for our children with autism. This conference is needed because 1 in 91 children are diagnosed with autism. That means there are new parents every week learning this difficult news. It also means there are little children that have a real chance at a bright future if we all get a chance to meet and learn the best way to help them.

Please do not feel guilty if you are not able to give. If you can give, don’t feel like you have to donate a lot. All donations are tax deductible. I have put the information below if you are able to donate (or you can give it to me, as well).


Thank you all,
Marlene and Jared

Checks should be made out to MSU Billings Foundation and sent to:
Kim Schweikert
MSU Billings- Outreach Coordinator
College of Professional Studies & Lifelong Learning
208 North Broadway Suite 414
Billings, MT 59101